We never know for sure or it may be difficult to predict what can happen exactly if there are small changes occur in our surrounding. For example, what would happen if there are some youth gather? it maybe resulted something bad like fighting or something good like independence movement like our founding father did.
This things are like the butterfly effect, a hurricane can happen if there were butterfly flapped its wings several weeks before. The butterfly effect is commonly use in chaos theory where by definition is a sensitive dependence on initial conditions. Here, I’m not going to talk about chaos theory, since I’m not an expert in the area. I just wanna share the unique result of my observation on the twin. The result where i assume is kind of similar with the butterfly effect.
At this age, my twin is insanely active and energetic. They can’t stay calmed or sit quietly in the chair. Especially Ariq, he can only remain silent when he sleep. They just love to move, running in a wide space, taking, tasting and observing stuff which they rarely see. They got bored easily with static toys but they love toys that make them move. They will angry and crying if they can’t have what they want.
At this age, if there is an option to not take them when i have to go outside for a while, I definitely would choose that option. Sometimes I ashamed of their riot behavior in public area. I even think that by seeing their tantrum, people will be discouraged to have children. Some people says that it’s common behavior for toddlers around their age. But so far, they are more active than any other toddlers I ever see. In conclusion, it will cost a lot of energy to take care of the twin at this age (but why i still fat??hehe, it’s another discussion).
I thought this energetic behavior is embedded in each of them. Until i observe that if they were separate, the energetic things will disappear or decrease. For example, if one of them was away with their grandparent then the other one who stay at home will be less active, even Ariq can stay quite in the chair while having his milk. There are no riot, running or screaming, or fighting (of course) but still there are crying, but just a little. After i asked to my parent, the other one who out with them was doing the same, less active. But after several hours separated, the riot is definitely happen by the second they meet each other. It’s like 1+1 is not equal with 2 but 4 or 8!!. Yeah, it is like the butterfly effect..
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